19.6M
Female Population
30.5M
Adults (18+)
37.6 yr
Median Age
$96,334
Median Household Income

Single Women in California

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Valentina 28
Los Angeles, CA
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Miami, FL
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Houston, TX
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New York, NY
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Atlanta, GA
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Chicago, IL
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Phoenix, AZ
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Top Cities in California

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Los Angeles

3.86M population · Very active

San Diego

1.39M population · Beach scene

San Jose

990K population · Tech hub

San Francisco

836K population · Urban scene

Fresno

545K population · Growing

Sacramento

525K population · Capital city

Long Beach

466K population · Coastal

Oakland

430K population · Diverse

Bakersfield

407K population · Affordable

Anaheim

345K population · SoCal scene

Santa Ana

310K population · Urban

Riverside

315K population · Growing fast


Best Dating Sites for California Singles

These platforms have the largest and most active user bases in California.

1
★★★★★ 4.8
Serious Relationships
2.1M
CA Users
78%
Match Rate
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2
★★★★☆ 4.5
All Types of Dating
1.8M
CA Users
35M+
Total Users
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3
★★★★☆ 4.3
Educated Professionals
850K
CA Users
82%
With Degree
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Finding Single Women in California — Complete Guide

With a population of 39,896,400, California is the most populous state in the United States. Of those, 19,636,900 are women — making up exactly 50% of the state's population. The state has 30,513,800 adults, with a median age of 37.6 years (38.6 for females, 36.7 for males).

California's population is also growing: the state added 232,600 residents in the past year, a 0.59% increase. This steady influx of new residents keeps the dating scene fresh and dynamic across the state.

California's Diverse Dating Pool

The state's racial composition includes 43.95% White, 15.28% Asian, 5.54% Black or African American, and 16.33% two or more races. This diversity is reflected in the dating scene, with platforms serving a wide range of backgrounds and cultural preferences.

Income and Dating in California

California's median household income of $96,334 is significantly above the national average. Married families earn a median of $132,245, while non-family households earn about $61,846. The per capita income stands at $54,437.

Best Cities for Meeting Singles

Los Angeles (3.86M) is the largest dating market. San Diego (1.39M) offers a beach-oriented scene. San Jose and San Francisco are tech-hub markets. Sacramento offers a more affordable alternative.

Online Dating Strategy for California

We recommend setting your search radius to 15-25 miles in metro areas. The most active times on dating apps are Sunday through Tuesday evenings, 7-10 PM Pacific.

With 5,994,490 seniors (65+), the mature dating market is also significant. SilverSingles and OurTime perform particularly well in San Diego, Palm Springs, and along the Central Coast.

Population by Race / Ethnicity
White
43.95%
Other
17.4%
Two or More
16.3%
Asian
15.3%
Black
5.5%
Native Am.
1.1%
Pacific Isl.
0.4%
Gender Split & Income
50%Female
19.6M Female
19.6M Male
$96,334
Median Household Income
$54,437
Average Per Capita Income

Questions About Dating in California
What is the best city in California to meet single women?+
Los Angeles is the largest dating market with 3.86 million residents. San Diego is great for a laid-back vibe, while San Francisco and San Jose are ideal for educated professionals.
How diverse is California's dating scene?+
California's population is 43.95% White, 15.28% Asian, 5.54% Black or African American, and 16.33% two or more races.
What is the median age of women in California?+
The median age for females is 38.6 years, slightly above the overall median of 37.6.
Is California expensive for dating?+
Median household income is $96,334. San Francisco and San Jose are most expensive, while Sacramento, Fresno, and Bakersfield are much more affordable.
What's the male-to-female ratio?+
Nearly even: 19,636,900 females (50%) and 19,605,900 males (50%).
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